english man muslim lady

[flash]

hi my name is chris and i am english and don`t follow any faith but happy in life, i wnet to morroco last year for a week and i feel in love with a beatiful woman called fati, we met while she was working in the hotel i stayed in.
we went out for a drink(no beer just coke) and we had a great chat, and then we walked on the beach watched the sun go down.
then when she had to get a taxi to go home she gave me a hug and kiss me.

then i saw the next day we chatted some more and planned to go back to the beach saddly this was my last day there as i was going back that night, so we met up and just sat on some steps looking at the sea and chatting and holding hands (no kissing as we was in public) then she said she loved me and that she as chosen me to be her husband( i was in a little bit of shock with that as i am a shy guy at heart)

after being there just about 2 hours talking i had to go as i had to get ready before our coach came, we walk together so far and we hugged and kissed ( not very public place)

she said she would not go back to the hotel to see me off as it will be too sad which was very true i thought i would be alright being a man but once i was on that bus nothink could stop me.

well it is 6 months later and we still chat or email on msn and we still say how much we love each other, but the talk of getting married has slowed down, even now i like the idea of getting married, i am moving to bulgaria with my parents in 18 months forever and the thing now that is putting her off is not only her parents but moving to another country but we do talk about it now and again and what it would be like.

is there any other english men who have met and married a muslim girl and are happy?

can we still get married even if i am not muslim is this ok?

all the best

chris

[joecreosta]

Chris,

Thanks for your post. I do not know how to put this in nice words, but the Islamic culture anywhere in the world does NOT accept a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim man. May Allah guide her and also you to be very careful and selective in making this choice for your future.

Let me give you an example for myself to you my dear beloved brother. I am a Muslim and a very conservative Muslim from USA. Recently I started talking to a very nice person, and she is also from Morocco and we both intent to get married in the next near future by the mery of Allah. Even though I am a Muslim, but from a different culture. My entire family is totally against the idea of marrying this pious woman who is very religious and practices her religion Islam in every single aspect of life, they simply would NOT accept her no matter what. And I know that in the future we will have to deal with the circumstances etc...

I pray to Allah that He guides the sister Fati in Morocco and give her the opportunity to explore the Islam more and then make a right decision for her life and for her religion. And for you Chris, I wish that you also explore the glorious religion of Islam and convert ONLY if you want to convert for the sake of Allah and NOT because you are in love with a Muslim girl. That would not prove anything, if you convert, do that ONLY because you studies Islam and you understood it, and love it, and willing to do anything and to sacrifice anything for the religion.

Inshalah Allah knows the best and he's the Lord of everyone in this world. May Allah be with you always and show you the right way. Ameen.

Brother Joseph

[flash]

hi Joseph
many thanks for your reply, i do understand that this is not somethink easy and was in no way planned. i know i do not follow any religion but i free to understand other peoples faith and respect it to the best that i can.

i do love fati but it is true i think in any faith that it is hard to love and think of marrage when you don`t really know each other. i hope that we will remain friends, but i am happy to say that my parents are happy with me to get married to a muslim girl or anyone from any religion so long as they true.

she is very smart and she listens to modern music like eminem and sting and is funny.

but you are right about me becoming muslim for the right reason and just for marrage as i will feel as if i am lying to her parents and to the muslim faith.

right i am just happy that we are friends

all the best

chris

[joecreosta]

Chris,

Thanks for understanding where we're coming from. Although right now she seems to be very energetic about marrying you and listening to Eminen etc, there will be one time in her life when she will realize what she is doing was against her religion she had never explored in the past. What will you guys do then...?????? By the way, do her parents know about you? And do they know that she had this relationship with you ? I am not a Moroccon but I have been hearing a lot about Moroccon culture lately, and all I hear from the people is mostly disappointment. This is very scary as I am in the same boat. However my situation is a little different as its my family who is not accepting the religious woman. They are afraid just like you are that I might get cheated on and betrayed.........................

[flash]

hi joe

thanks for the reply no fati parents don`t know as far as i know which i understand can be a small problem, but right now i am taking it day by day as friends she is very nice to chat to and she knows the problems and as said that our marriage may never happen (but one can hope).
i am just happy that if she is true that she does have feelings for me i am happy it is nice in a world still with a lot of hate and fear. that 2 people from different faiths can be friends or even fall in love and i say this to anyone that reads this if you have a good chance with someone no matter who you are or who they are it don`t matter as long as you love each other.

all the best chris

[joecreosta]

Chris,

Your story is no different from the romeo/julliet. but you have to understand that Islam, the religion does NOT allow a relationship between a Muslim woman and a non-Muslim man. Does not matter the LOVE and all those emotional things...those are just the trials and trabulations by Allah, the God!

[xxFatyxx]

Erm, i won't take much of yo time dude, so listen; imo:

U love the chick? yes
She loves u? yes
U don't mind her religion? no
She doesn't mind yours? no

GO & FKN MARRY HER WITHOUT ASKING RETARDED QUESTIONS!.