your opinion guys about the partner choice

[pilous]

Salam all
Would you choose your partner according to his/her career ?
income /wealth!
family name
her sharme
or a particular character she has ..such as being the same member of your school ,faith,sport team or music choice,literature etc..
Nowadays women are not those of the Time of prophet sw ,they are westernized and have many standards and can not cook ,clean and be strong like our Moms at the time of French ,spanish colonisation !
would you marry a women to benifit something out of her !?
do you have that in mind? I don't insist in your answer.
but in society people are doing it ..personaly I can't !!!
why because you will be the loser at the end even if you divorce..unless you are a heartless criminal "womens like those who lies to them sometimes".IMAGINE THINK ABOUT IT .you will be living with her all your life if not having kids and circumstances are very possible that you will be discussing your past in front of your kids ..how family of both genders were ..it is a shame that Moroccans look to fight adultery and favour marriage but still do block it when it comes to realising it.
who would make a man be a successful pious,inmost domaines and who will turn him miserable also?
it is that of which she was created ,his rib"
may Allah swt guide us though his right path

[nwella amazigh]

so whats your partner choice? yeah i know you were askin da guys, but just curious

[pilous]

my partner choice !
is from me or better than me!
a person who knows me for me !
an angel who whispers goodness to me!
an image of peace and tranquility..
my partner choice ,have fought long wars and left with scars
she once played her role very well and disguised in hijab
another was blonde with a us citizenship
and another with wealth and name and another and another..
but no one could be my partner ,yes i may have lost everything i had in that war to find my partner ,but god forbid a wrong one will give a birth to a child born from a wrong one!
Im not looking for an ideal women or an extra super being!
I'm just quietly looking perhaps i waisted time ..
but i rather do and not fall into a bad choice!
I will come back to you ,have to go !
I hope to be happy and my hapiness is to see her happy ...
now does happy means lots of money
OR no money but honey !!!nooo that's not right neither.
a partner who respects you because love without respect is nothing!
a partner that keeps your secrets and respects your Privacy
not a quarlessom partner.
Ahh "this thread is for both gender"

[Ghazala]

Sharme wins every time. Oh, and he mustn't be quarlessom. I hate that

[pilous]

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beauty is very good yes ghazala but an empty beauty from the inside is like !a big red apple shining like a pearl ,but you open it you find it spoiled !you won't need it then...
too much talk of equality and abuse and nothing about to endure love and deen nothing serious ..
if nowadays young muslimas follow the west and their kids and leaves Allah swt and islam and his kids or young male what is left?
we are not even talking about modernized muslimas astaghfiro lah!
disgusting time we live in ,when betrayal becomes so normal and a simple apology won't come out from the criminal?
any way some sister needs just to get rid of that fear and escapism and tawakul 3ala Lah instead of being a trap when they think they escaped from one!at least Allah swt have created for you a heart and a mind !use them!
both gender do have a responsibilty to take!
we moroccan have lost our identity but at least we do remind each others strongly about it!
and we are proud of Islam !proud to be Moroccans !
proud by a good faith not an evil pride
my partner inshallah ,will be my teacher and student !
Allah is the cohearant!
one should not be abusive and respect each others..
this time is rough and man have more duties to do .
in order to understand nowadays women...
but once married no more foolishness.Time to raise a family inshallah.
Sallam,