Friendship after love

[aswad]

Are you joking Larache ?
When a lovestory is end, is end.
Never I back with a man after we end our lovestory.

[Larache4eva]

am saying being friends again after an intimate romantic relationship is a big lie to me...cuz neither of you have really overcome it. am not saying you, Aswad, am talking generally...i been dating a girl she was also a class mate... then after we broke up just cuz we got used to hangin out together both of us n her best friend.. we weer trying be friends again after awhile..things started to get us back again till we found ourselves in...love is an addiction you can't decide to quit smoking then have a pack of cigarettes always in your pockets.

to completely end a relationship is to stop seeing that someone or at least do not be a friend any more...
will you Aswad feel comfortable if your husband someday is hanging out with a female friend n then you find out she' was his ex before you married him?? are u gonan trust their relationship?

[aswad]

Well, Im not agree to put too much prohibitions in a lovestory.
If you want a good lovestory, we must have also trust.
If my husband speak with his ex girlfriend, what is wrong ?
I repeat : I'm friend with my ex boyfriends and this is possible.
Naturally, all depend in what way the lovestory is ended.......like I said, with my ex egy man, all is end in a very bad way so before I become his friend, I prefer cut my head.
But much times, lovestory end with calm and is possible to be friends.

[Larache4eva]

i see what you mean.. the feeling that nothing bad or wrong happend between you and ur ex that your relationship should stop completely..

but i still think just a meet of the eyes, things will be 'updated" again. its like a past love story has a place in the hearts down there in the bottm of heart "inactive but not dead" right after u pick it, it would rise again to its fully strengh as before...i wouldn't trust my wife hanging out with her ex seriously..but well maybe tahts different to some.

[-thetruth_]

I have to agree with you there. even if it maybe possible for some to be friends. that is rare and is not the norm.