How do you choose your friends?,

[aswad]

The more one hangs out with friends, the more one realizes not all friends are forever. Some, indeed, come and go with the fashion. Some people are famous for being famous and hang out with the poshest crowds without any special reason. Some people are ignored and never invited anywhere although far from being dull.

So how do you choose your friends? What's important for you? I don't want to make a poll at this point, but here are some criteria:

1. Physical appearance - you want someone beautiful, ugly, uglier than you etc.

2. Possessions - clothes, car, businesses, fancy house

3. Position in society - job title, club memberships

4. Conversational abilities

5. Mental and spiritual traits

6. Comfort - i.e. goes to the same pub as you, works in the same company

7. Common tastes and lifestyle

8. Tastes & lifestyle you aspire to get.

9. What can they do for you

10 What can you do for them

11. Coz Mama said to befriend them hehehe

The list can go on ...


LAST BUT NOT LEAST - the opposite question - what makes you REJECT people's friendship?


Hope someone replies ?

[Larache4eva]

um depends about the kind of friend to make, am personally not very social i make few friends n even if i get to chat wit some for awhile tha almost seems like we are gettin to be friends but then i draw back n not go further than that.
as for the options am more like the number 6 and 7 all together i feel more comfortabel if am being friend and hang out with some who are same position like me, going same prblms or something that u know what i mean something we share i dn't wait for mama (hehehe) to show her disapprove of a certain friend i hang out wit, but i do not hang out wit tha type from the start..i don't hang out wit smokers and those who drink often, maybe not me but maybe them not liking to hang out wit a non-smoker like me, they wanna a friend for give-n-take hang outs. shared benefits.
my mama told me don't befriend with Aswad she'd blacken ur life hehehehe kidding... so did i help?
oh yeah what makes you REJECT a friend!!! the reason might be he/she seem to not be approved in the reasons i stated above!!! lol nothing new! but hey wait, did u rise the topic cuz u were confused weither 2 make me ur friend or not?!!! oh dear no need to, ill be ur friend hahaha

[-thetruth_]

I have always had this test that I use to know real friends from fake ones.
If I need help and know that the person can help and does not then I wipe him or her off and move on.

[aswad]

Originally Posted by Larache4eva

but hey wait, did u rise the topic cuz u were confused weither 2 make me ur friend or not?!!! oh dear no need to, ill be ur friend hahaha

maybe was this my problem : can Larache to me my friend or not ?

[Larache4eva]

Originally Posted by aswad

maybe was this my problem : can Larache to me my friend or not ?

hhehehe yeah sure ill be so, but wait a minute u didn't say which of the option u go for, n Larache is my town lol but my name is zakarias if you want to be a friend to a town then i don't know

[Larache4eva]

bye the way i like ur new signature image ! did u put aswad on it or was it tha already? Rasta faria Aswad is a rasta hehe

[aswad]

Pleased to meet you Zakarias
So do u like my signature ?
I'm one of them