The older you get...

[Amiraa]

...The less friends you have....(apparently)...

I was havin this discussion on at the weekend and i guess it is sorta true...When your a kid at primary school you have millions of mates, all at the little birthday parties etc...and then you get to secondary school and you leave them behind and make a select few new ones...and then upper school you may keep the same...then off to uni or work and you lose touch and i guess it is true, especially when i explain it to myself like that...

But i must admit now i have loadsa acquaintances, some friends, few really good friends and like one really really best friend...so i can see that that has actually happened to me too in a way...

Its quite strange really...

What do you lot reckon...

[Anisa]

I know many people, but can count my 'true' friends on one hand, I demand loyalty & trust from my friends and I give the same back...

My true friends are the ones I would call if I needed help, got good news or bad news
I can be myself in fornt of my friends

[Amiraa]

Originally Posted by Anisa

but can count my 'true' friends on one hand

Thats with me too....you no who your true friends are when you have a hard time to go thru and there there for you not jus when its the good...

Heres another issue to raise and i dont wanna huge uproar in regards to this but...i find it very hard to trust moroccan girls...my bestest friend in the whole world is moroccan and i trust her with my deepest darkest secret but ive had experiences in the past and i have found that trustin a moroccan girl was not a good choice to make at all...

Obviously its down to the individual, but ive witnessed plenty of ppl stabbin eachother in the back...so i would be hard pushed to completely trust one and it would take alot....

What do you reckon...

[Anisa]

Thats a good question... I have 1 female Moroccan friend.... I know what you mean... I experienced this type of backstabbing when i was at school with Moroccan girls... There was a time when I wouldn't befriend a Moroccan girl but as I've gotten older I realise its just the jealous, bitter and immature ones that are bad... plenty of good ones (incl us!)

[Amiraa]

Originally Posted by Anisa

Thats a good question... I have 1 female Moroccan friend.... I know what you mean... I experienced this type of backstabbing when i was at school with Moroccan girls... There was a time when I wouldn't befriend a Moroccan girl but as I've gotten older I realise its just the jealous, bitter and immature ones that are bad... plenty of good ones (incl us!)

But you'd think that befriendin a fellow moroccan would be better...ya no, they'd have ya back etc...but from what ive seen...that is rarely the case...they'd rather see you in trouble than get you out of it...

[Anisa]

Not necessarily hun, girls are girls ... I've always had friends from different ethnic groups..

Originally Posted by Amiraa

But you'd think that befriendin a fellow moroccan would be better...ya no, they'd have ya back etc...but from what ive seen...that is rarely the case...they'd rather see you in trouble than get you out of it...

[Amiraa]

The friendships you can form round from where im from is limited im afraid...its either English or Moroccans...and nothin else...