Would you settle for Second best...?

[Amiraa]

Originally Posted by Anisa

I know, i've seen it enough times! I wouldn't get married to please anyone, I'll get married when I'm good and ready

Would you?

I can honestly say that i would try and not go that route but if it came to a time in my life i couldnt find that person then i would deffo except help and recommendations...

[Ghazala]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AMIRA! You are a princess & need a prince

[Amiraa]

Originally Posted by Ghazala

Moroccan families harass you as soon as you hit your 20s so don't think you're the only one.

No its not a ''well i have a friend who...'' situation...

Im jus askin in general...

Originally Posted by Amiraa

What if you never found anyone ever...never found that best lady...?

well thats true, id just have a non muslim girl friend.. till i do find a nice muslim lady

its always give an take, you will never or seldom find 100% what u look for but as long as they have over 80% its cool...

second best to me means around 50% of what you expect

[Amiraa]

Originally Posted by ICEMAN

well thats true, id just have a non muslim girl friend.. till i do find a nice muslim lady

[Ghazala]

Iceman...........

As a good Muslim, you know that pre-marital relations constitute zina right?

I know.. lol, I wanted to hear your reactions.. its to provoke discussion

besides, im sure lots of girls here are having pre marital relations and more!!