The Lies of Porn

[-EveStar-]

You can't learn the truth about sex from pornography. It doesn't deal in truth. Pornography is not made to educate, but to sell. So, pornography will tell whatever lies attract and hold the audience. Porn thrives on lies -- lies about sex, women, marriage and a lot of other things. Let's look at some of those lies and see just how badly they can mess up your life and attitudes.

• Lie #1 - Women are less than human
  The women in Playboy magazine are called "bunnies," making them cute little animals or "playmates," making them a toy. Penthouse magazine calls them "pets." Porn often refers to women as animals, playthings, or body parts. Some pornography shows only the body or the genitals and doesn't show the face at all. The idea that women are real human beings with thoughts and emotions is played down.
• Lie #2 - Women are a "sport"
  Some sports magazines have a "swimsuit" issue. This suggests that women are just some kind of sport. Porn views sex as a game and in a game, you have to "win," "conquer," or "score." Men who buy into this view like to talk about "scoring" with women. They start judging their manhood by how many "conquests" they can make. Each woman I "score" with is another trophy on my shelf, another "notch" in my belt to validate my masculinity.

• Lie #3 - Women are property
  We've all seen the pictures of the slick car with the sexy girl draped over it. The unspoken message, "Buy one, and you get them both." Hard-core porn carries this even further. It displays women like merchandise in a catalog, exposing them as openly as possible for the customer to look at. It's not surprising that many young men think that if they have spent some money taking a girl out, they have a right to have sex with her. Porn tells us that women can be bought.
• Lie #4 - A woman's value depends on the attractiveness of her body
  Less attractive women are ridiculed in porn. They are called dogs, whales, pigs or worse, simply because they don't fit into porn's criteria of the "perfect" woman. Porn doesn't care about a woman's mind or personality, only her body.
• Lie #5 - Women like rape
  "When she says no, she means yes" is a typical porn scenario. Women are shown being raped, fighting and kicking at first, and then starting to like it. Porn teaches men to enjoying hurting and abusing women for entertainment.
• Lie #6 - Women should be degraded
  Porn is often full of hate speech against women. Women are shown being tortured and humiliated in hundreds of sick ways and begging for more. Does this kind of treatment show any respect for women? Any love? Or is it hatred and contempt that porn is promoting toward women?
• Lie #7 - Little kids should have sex
  One of the biggest sellers in pornography is imitation "child" porn. The women are "made-up" to look like little girls by wearing pony tails, little girl shoes, holding a teddy bear. The message of the pictures and cartoons is that adults having sex with kids is normal. This sets the porn user up to see children in a sexual way.
• Lie #8 - Illegal sex is fun
  Porn often has illegal or dangerous elements thrown in to make sex more "interesting." It suggests that you can't enjoy sex if it isn't weird, illegal or dangerous.
• Lie #9 - Prostitution is glamorous
  Porn paints an exciting picture of prostitution. In reality, many of the women portrayed in pornographic material are runaway girls trapped in a life of slavery. Many having been sexually abused. Some of them are infected with incurable sexually transmitted diseases that are highly contagious and often die very young. Many take drugs just to cope.

[brim]

Originally Posted by -EveStar-

[*]Lie #2 - Women are a "sport"
Some sports magazines have a "swimsuit" issue. This suggests that women are just some kind of sport. Porn views sex as a game and in a game, you have to "win," "conquer," or "score." Men who buy into this view like to talk about "scoring" with women. They start judging their manhood by how many "conquests" they can make. Each woman I "score" with is another trophy on my shelf, another "notch" in my belt to validate my masculinity.[/list]

Clearly something that both Adonis and Iceman might like to address.

[voltaires_priest]

That was written by an evangelical called Gene McConnell wasn't it?



V

[-EveStar-]

Yes, it is V. Personally I, myself, am not a fan of evangelicals however I found this to be rather true to the psychological symptoms of the man obsessed with female nudity. It is a mental disorder harmful to the pervert and to his victims.

[razrif]

God bless the porn stars
especially at Christmas!

[Nims]

Good post EveStar. Here in America, the genius Republicans are planning a new way to outlaw this disease called Porn. Finally the 400 Million porn websites will be taxed, which will give the government a nice 4 Billion dollars revenue per year. Money that will wisely be used to monitor these sites. These sites do not check visitors age and target for most part children and teenagers. This way, we will limit this porn business dramatically.

[lakhor]

Lies of porn! is the wrong subject to call yor topic.
First of all porn is true! its like cartoons when tom is chasing Jerry and hits him with the hammer, thats exactly what he is, and meant to do. He is not an actor who does action movies then does horror films under a different character name. He is tom and will always chase jerry. Please dont think Im comparing porn to cartoons. Im just saying that Porns aim is to fulfill a demand. Its not a lie if you get turned on by it. If its not your thing thats one thing but just remember there is people out the that love that stuff. Theres demand for men being degraded by being defecated on, men that get whipped etc. But although I am not in to that, I understand that fundemantally its what makes democracy so great.
My point is, it aint a lie bro!