Help me

[aswad]

I need your advice.

Weeks ago, a woman 43 years old, is died from cancer in my ward.
Alll we were much near to her in this her moments and we remained very, very bad, when she is died.

days ago, her husband, called we and he said that he want we to go to eat to his restaurant, because he want we with him.
he said that he will be very happy if we will go, that this is much important for him.

Now, me, like my collegaues, are a bit in difficolty, because we don't know what do.

We see this a strange situation, because she is died weeks ago and for we is a bit embarrassing to go eat with him, because what we do ? we go eat with him nad what we do ? can we have a normal behaviour ???? NO....what we can speak with him ? about her ? NO.
We think is a bit soon for this, we think he is much sad for what happen his wife, so, how can we to go to eat with him like a normal dinner ?

We are really in difficolty...we don't know what is better do.
If we go, maybe all can to be very sad for him.
If we don't go, maybe he will remain very bad about we.

In this situation, what you would do ?

Give me some advice, because really, we don't know what is right do.

[razrif]

Take somebody with you
and try the proffitta rolls
there loverly

[Lotfi-dz]

His asking you to go and eat with him at his restaurants and that’s exactly what you have to do. Go and eat then go back home.

[aswad]

He asked not only to me but all we nurses.

Ok, if you think this can to be right, I will go with my colleagues.
I hope only all will not be very sad.

[Lotfi-dz]

Its not going to be bad, believe me, I think it will make him feel better having a lot of people around him, and try to avoid talking about death or anything, if you have to talk then talk about life and living. I think once you lose someone that close, you would love to have every one around you...

live goes on,

[aswad]

THank you for what you said.
I think you are right.

Thank you again.

it may be his way of thanking you for your care, i think he would get a great deal out of it if you were able to go along.