Your Kind opinion.

[georgina]

First of all RAMADAN MOUBARAK SAID. here in Italy it started officially today.

I introduce myself: im italiana and proud to be living in italy and have a moroccan fiancèè from Casa.
I know a lot has been written on the subject, and i am now living it.

What do you think about mixed race and mixed religion marriages? We have been together 2 and half years now. He is not regular here in Italy. He has been asking me to marry since a year ago, im kinda reclutant coz i heard the most horrible stories on how to obtain green card and so on with weddings.

If someone wants "the papers" do you think he would stick to one girl although she (that in this case it's me) carries on saying im scared im scared..... I do support him at times.
Is it true that no way a moroccan man would allow his woman to support him?

Is it true that moroccans (arabs in general) prefers a much younger wife?
In my case im older 7 years.

Having worked in the states (5 visas) i've noticed arab men married with some really fat but real fat american ladies. I kniw they dont marry these ladies out of love!

Im a very mediterranean (in colors) woman and objectively a beautiful looking too. He is also good looking.Although this dont matter in a love realtionship of course.

He insists a lot on the marriage since he says that in that way we can go ahead together he can work and show me that he is responsible, and we can go to the bled together to meet his family, to which i email and speak in french. He says that if i love him like i say i should not have problems in marrying... Sounds so easy! Well we have done all the papers we just need to choose the DATE!!

I am in a situation that needs advice.

Appreciating your view, an italian ciao to all

[Ghazala]

I think......... you need to make your own mind up. This is a personal decision you make alone

[voltaires_priest]

Yup - If I was deciding who to marry, then with all due respect my first port of call would probably not be an anonymous discussion board.

Which is not to say that I don't love all the members here, of coz



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[Boogski]

5 Visas, eh? Perhaps we should be asking YOU for advice.

Don't lie to us. We'll know.

[NAK__-KKK]

Hi all I think this is a personnal matter and it is up to you to deciede of your life , nobody in here could advice you
hai capito Giorgina ...non e questione di "soggiorno" , se lo ami , vacci !!! tocca a te e solo a te decidere della tua vita , noi non possiamo che augurarti buona fortuna ....
in bocca al lupo e salutami l'Italia...

[georgina]

Again, Salaam Aleikum everybody.

OF course i do not pretend you deciding for me or telling me do this or that.... Just your opinion as i stated on the title....

Ok Ok ok i confess: I am scared!!!
Oh yes that could be lack of self confidence, although i have a degree, im a beautiful person inside and outside, have my job, my own car and in the process of buying my own flat, but still i reckon that this fact of being sans papiers plays a big part in this relationship.... (Oh yes i've discovered the moon!!!)

I mean the fact that i've been reading horrifying stories on the net on moroccan man marrying for the green card and not admitting it it's scary!!

I wont be against an arranged wedding, i mean: you need green card, ok i'm in the position of helping you with a white wedding,ok pay for it, and asap we divorce!
Here in italy the average cost of this kind of union is about 3000/4000 euro.. you believethe s@@t? that is nothing.

When questioning Fattah on this, actually proposing this to him, he was kinda shocked genuinely, i tried to test him to see his reaction. He seems genuine.... but im living in a limbo here...

Boogsky by being italian (thank God) i am entitled to have a free entrance in the US lasting three months each time every time i want. and Yes i've entered the Us 5 times and asap i flew out of it!

Nak kkk :

i love it when someone speaks, actually writes, correctly italian language. And i reckon you are right, se lo amo davvero, devo andarci, anzi starci! Very easy to say my dear, but real life is another thing.
Well.. congratulations! By how you write it you have definitely been here.

Why did i post my story here? Actually the point here is: an advise, a comprehensive word...i dont know.... a virtual support....come on arent you mostly moroccans in here? So Answer the questions i've posed up.

Being 32 y.o. and him 25 could it work? My previous relationship have been always with much older man, so now i'm "the granny"!!!

Originally Posted by georgina

Boogsky by being italian (thank God) i am entitled to have a free entrance in the US lasting three months each time every time i want. and Yes i've entered the Us 5 times and asap i flew out of it!

Bonjorno Georgina:

What happened? Did America scare you? Were our buildings too big, and cars too fast for you to handle?