matrimonial advice

[amieamie]

hi all,

i might sound pathetique or desperate, but i seriously need help.
what would you do if you've loved someone for so long and once married you discover you've got it wrong all along. he is a cheat, doesn' know what he wants, ....in all he is not stable and my life is heal , and i can't get the courage to leave him because i love him so much and also because im sure he loves me too, and i'm hoping he might come to his senses one day

[Anisa]

Leave him. He won't change, he sounds like he's not ready for marriage.