PLEASE HELP!!

[funkygirl]

PLEASE CAN YOU HELP ME? I am from a Romany family in England who has fallen in love with a Moroccan man who lives in Espana. I have only known him for two weeks and have had to leave him in Espana. My friends and family all say that he jus wants to use me for an English passport but I cant believe that of him. Am I just a mug!!! I havent got much understanding of this part of the world but I see a man who has managed to survive and make a better life for himself but is it better??? can he have a spanish residency?? hes been there four years. I dont know that he works but he has got a four bedroom apartment which he lives solo. He says he is a muslim but he drinks and smokes etc Do you think I should quit? we havent had a sexual realationship as I want to wait for marriage and he has great respect and is so kind and rings me every day to tell me he loves me and is crazy about me. I could fly out in three weeks for a weekend and he wants me to but I would really appreciate some guidence from any men or women who might have an opinion. Why do Moroccan men leave their family and live in Espana is it so much better or is it an easy way out??? PLEASE HELP. Peace

[Ghazala]

None of us are in a position to advise you properly as we don't know either of you.

Have confidence in your own judgement. You are the only person who can answer your questions

[voltaires_priest]

Welcome to the forum FunkyGirl, but Ghazala is right. Probably none of the members of this forum knows either you or your boyfriend, therefore we're not in the best position to give advice.

Good luck with it though and I hope it all works out for you.

And feel free to stick around and post anyway!



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[funkygirl]

Thankyou for your advice, you have confirmed what I believe. Since I have met Moroccan people for the first time I feel I must comment on how polite and sincere I have found them. I am not a muslim but the more I find out about what you believe I more I realise that its the same as I believe. To read the koran and get the whole truth im told I must read it in arabic, does this mean any arabic tongue?