Why have two women?

[adlazema]

I would like to know what are your views on moroccan men who want to have two women (for example 1 european-1 moroccan0?Is it still seen as "normal"?Did anyone have this experience(if i can call it like that!)?

Any views are welcome.Thanks.It might help me look forward...

[-theTruth-]

Allah knows best but I guess that Moroccan women want to be serious but the men find it hard to keep up with the unlimited demands they impose on him so he would go for temporary pleasure with Europeans while he waits for Allah(SWT) to change the Moroccan women and you know very well that Allah(swt) will never change a person untill he or she changes themselves first so hence he why he feels like a prisoneer. lol!

Ok being serious of course it is very wrong to keep 2 women unless there is a reason for it and the reason must be accepted by both parties.
Peace

[Ghazala]

It's called 'having your cake & eating it too'.

Do not accept it. It is not normal. What it is, is this: the guy is using the European girl to pass the time while he looks for his virgin trophy wife. What other reason could there be apart from he does not value you? I am not saying that you (i.e European women) are not to be valued. I am saying that from your post, it would appear that he does not value you.

There is no bar to a Moroccan man marrying a French, Indian, Japanese, black or whatever wife. Therefore there is no reason to have a girlfriend while looking for a wife. The only reasoning I can see behind this is that he avoids the need to masturbate as he has a girlfriend to play with before he gets a wife.

Sorry to be crude but I find it incredible that men can dupe women into accepting this situation. Either you are with someone; or you are not. Women should not be so naive & allow someone to do this to them. Fidelity is an integral part of any romantic relationship. Unless of course you are a 'swinger' in which case - why are you asking this question?!

In short: get rid of this guy. He has a damn cheek wanting two women.

PS: These situations remind me of a hilarious track from the 90s by Apache Indian. Arranged Marriage

[razrif]

In my experience one is more than enough!

[-theTruth-]

yeah but God allow us to have up to 4 pplus Italians say that no mariage is good without a mistress?
that is what they say
like Ghazala said there is no reason and anyone who accept it is a fool sorry

[Ghazala]

I agree. If you accept it & cry about it, you are a fool. Either you accept infidelity & shut up - or you do not accept it & give him the heave-ho.

Be strong girls. Rather be single than be a 'victim'

[adlazema]

Thanks guys really appreciate your views.