Women Fake freedom

[-theTruth-]

Salam

When a person feels free then he/s will understand the meaning of happiness. The Big Question is How can one be free free from what? and how can you be free?
Many people think that freedom is doing what we want, if that was the case then why do we need laws for ? .
In my opinion the best freedom is when a person male or female does what is right. what is right some may ask?
The righteousness is to first love the other person who hates you as it was you.
Instead of seaking for the true freedom people put themselves in a Virtual prison, in order to seak for the happiness by avoiding real freedom and pleasing others. take a look at the western freedom in women as examples:
Women must wear what the others wear in many forms and they call it fashion. here we see that everyone is a prisoner except the few who are usually the money maker and laugh at them some even call customers fools.
Women again have to loose weight in order to have a size 8 common sense would tell anyone that it is imposible to maintain a size 8
Women again must show off part of their body in order to please men again some go as far as used as toys in advert and porn etc.. all in the name of freedom but if you ask them a serious questio when they are calm they would hate their profesion.
makeup is now like UNDERWARE(this is only for Malika no part of the text) woman can not go out without it
Many women have fought so hard to get rights in society which should be a normal right anyway, but instead they pushed men so far that they have found it so hard to get one without having to sell themselves and in return men ended up taken revenge by abusing Women either physically or emontionally etc.. and now there are more single women than ever before. the divorce rate has soured.
and you will find that in all the above as few simple examples everyone is crying out for Love and happiness and those who say Money is the answer one just have to look at the celebrities for answers many are on doctors lists and many resort to Drugs and Alcohol for an excape.
The true freedom is when the person knows how to keep others happy or at least keep them being themselves and wears drinks drives eats what he/s wants without having to look behind to see if people are pointing at him/s and many of these people have indeedf achieved the true happiness they no longer have to wear brandnames or read such and such or sell their bodies for free or for money. they are the one that people hate and call wierd where in fact they are laughing at the rest

If you think hard enough you will find the answer to happiness in your own heart and brain without any help.

[Sista]

I could write a hundred sentences in reponse to that post and still have more to say. For the sake of parity and time i'll say the following. Happiness is a very personal and subjective emotion. What works for one person does not transcend to all others, likewise with opinions and statements.
In my opinion it depends on a balance of many aspects of a persons life, such as ones current affairs etc which can again depend further on many more areas, perhaps on past events or even on things on a metaphysical level like spirituality, aspirations etc. A complex intricate combination of processes working in unison to create that sense of serenity and calm, or the opposite if not.
To a large degree unhappiness is due to the way we as individuals perceive the world and events around us.

In essence every individual has the energy to make themselves happy or sad, the amount of effort involved for either is the same.

I disagree with your last sentence. For someone without insight to the mind or soul it does sometimes take someone elses help.

Salam

[Boogski]

It sounds like bookends. In the west you have girls revealing much skin but in the non-west world you have women completely covered. At least in the west you have a CHOICE. Sure there's pressure to be "fasionable" and fit in. But I submit that it's common across the board. If all you can see is someone's fingernails, it's normal to dress them up. I don't see a problem.

[Ma_Li_Ka]

Freedom has nothing to do with north, west, south, east. Freedom isn't to be naked, or to be fully dressed. Freedom is not a piece of paper called first amendment or law, in which is written what you can do or cannot do. Freedom is overall a feeling. And feelings are personal.

What one man understands by freedom, may well be another man's cage.

[-theTruth-]

Maybe I didn't explain myself properly.
In my opinion Women who follow others are slaves of the society they want to be in. virtually or physically
If a woman gets out of the circle she can then free herself and when a person approach her for who she is then she'd know she is worth it. dressing up like this or that having to wear certain clothes in order to be noticed is an ellusion.
like A White south African friend told me once,he used to go out with the one of the most pretiest girl ever seen any man could dream of.this collegue of mine who used to recieve 10 of emails a day from people asking her out, and even her own boss was tempped and try to ask her out disregarding his own partner's feeling you would think she was lucky and happy, she was not and when I asked her why on many occasions? she used to say " this image you see is nothing but pure lie and ellusion my man is scared of me thinking I am high maintenance girl, I may look this and that but the fact is I am a prisoner because people want me to look and dress in the way they want to see me and no one ever cared about my own feelings, men only approach me in order to get sex or when wanting a serious relationship ?they run away because they think I am too hard to keep" that man of hers dumped her and I was extreemly shocked but he gave me a good reason why, he went back to South Africa and saw the real happiness from simple people who know how to make a person happy because they spent all their lives serving others (kids ,mum dad etc..) the love was built in them when they give love they are used to not excepecting anything in return .I know this is his unique example but I am sure it goes for many many people.
Same with Women with Hijab they are not prisoners of the fashion nor they have to worry about what others say about them because they do not have to sell their image to men in order to seek for approval as to what colour hair or make they need to wear everyday. Simplicity leads to happiness

Freedom for women - warm panties, comfortable shoes, and the freedom to rock whenever they want to rock.


Chrissie Rocked(s)

[-theTruth-]

Mar are from Mars women are from Venus rest my case