Need Advice

[Lotfi-dk]

What kind of Advice would you give to a some one who fell in LOVE with a girl and after going out 3 times with her she told him that she has a b/f although she think his a playa, at first he was shocked and he thought about her a lot then he decided that he should end his relation with her, since then he stopped going to his uni and knew that his life has came to the end and as for girl she cried everyday and begged him not to leave her, but then she told him if they can be friends but he said NO. he came to me asking for advice but I was confused of what to tell him.
His heart is broken, and he thinks that his life is over. How can I help him?
Should he just be with her and hope for the best or try to forget about her and start a new life which might be impossible to do so.

[Malik]

hmmmmmmmm... Telling someone good advice and them accepting sound words are two different things; the first may not affect the other.
I would say the best is to get him to keep plugging away in uni and/or persue his life's passions. Best to have success. It is hard to put these kind of things behind you but being involved and reaping benifits is where the spice lies.

[simple-]

Golou Nissae(women) fitna. Golou y ba3ad 3la fitna

[moroccanchica]

Hey lofti i can finally reply!

Basically what i originally said to you was for your friend to leave his GF now. There more he is attached to her, the worser the situation gets. Stress him the word respect, his gf is nothing of it, so why is he wasting his time over her? Tell him now, and there are (believe me) plenty more beautiful fishes in the sea. This is not just an old cliche.

[Ghazala]

Originally posted by Lotfi-dk

Should he just be with her and hope for the best or try to forget about her and start a new life which might be impossible to do so.

He should keep away unless & until she dumps the other guy. Why he should be her 'spare'? It will end in tears..... I would advise your friend to save his love until someone who deserves it comes along. Inshallah he will meet a girl who will love him as he loves her.

[Ghazala]

No, Bi - so the world is his oyster........

[_thetruth]

Originally posted by Lotfi-dk
What kind of Advice would you give to a some one who fell in LOVE with a girl and after going out 3 times with her she told him that she has a b/f although she think his a playa, at first he was shocked and he thought about her a lot then he decided that he should end his relation with her, since then he stopped going to his uni and knew that his life has came to the end and as for girl she cried everyday and begged him not to leave her, but then she told him if they can be friends but he said NO. he came to me asking for advice but I was confused of what to tell him.
His heart is broken, and he thinks that his life is over. How can I help him?
Should he just be with her and hope for the best or try to forget about her and start a new life which might be impossible to do so.

Ask him to remember That Only God can grant happiness so he needs to start praying and God will guide him to the right path.