My Void Marriage To A Wonderful Man

[voltaires_priest]

Originally Posted by pilous

Salam all
do you want to teach God how to unite his creations according to your ethiest Law or chosen religion?
Vp give up arguing things that you don't know for the sake of the loving God

Apparently it's you who wants to lay down the law, not me. I suggest you give up prescribing crude solutions to other people's problems based on your literalist view of religious rules.

You can't seriously believe that God wants to break up families.



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[voltaires_priest]

Originally Posted by Yasmeen2

asalamu alaikum, thanks to everyone who has expressed their opinions and advice in my marriage issue. I know that I have done wrong following the abuse and pain I endured in my previous marriage. It is a test for me, but I am going to take the man to the imam and i have spoke to the Imam about it. I at least have aknowledged my mistake in the religion of islam and all I can do is repent genuinely. I am happily married even though I am following my desires as a human being.. My children will be sent to a muslim school and if they see islam for temselves and learn to read quraan what statue would they be taking about? only time will tell. I have spent a number of years learning islam in dept I still have a lot to learn myself and istead of giving someone an ultimatum to convert to a religion he is learning about why not be patient just like a lot of women were in the time of the prohet (PBUH) one of them waited for twenty years for her husband to convert and he did subhanallah. I can't justify it and I'm not trying to I wasn't askin anyone to get smart with me either which doesn't help but thanks anyway.

All the very best of luck to you Yasmeen.

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[pilous]

Originally Posted by Yasmeen2

asalamu alaikum, thanks to everyone who has expressed their opinions and advice in my marriage issue. I know that I have done wrong following the abuse and pain I endured in my previous marriage. It is a test for me, but I am going to take the man to the imam and i have spoke to the Imam about it. I at least have aknowledged my mistake in the religion of islam and all I can do is repent genuinely. I am happily married even though I am following my desires as a human being.. My children will be sent to a muslim school and if they see islam for temselves and learn to read quraan what statue would they be taking about? only time will tell. I have spent a number of years learning islam in dept I still have a lot to learn myself and istead of giving someone an ultimatum to convert to a religion he is learning about why not be patient just like a lot of women were in the time of the prohet (PBUH) one of them waited for twenty years for her husband to convert and he did subhanallah. I can't justify it and I'm not trying to I wasn't askin anyone to get smart with me either which doesn't help but thanks anyway.

I'm Glad you understood the message,and this does not mean that yasmeen2
is the only sinner is Islam world ,resident of Irelnd .no !!!
We all make mistakes with diffrent ways but there are boundaries..Sister once you have the option to rescue yourself do it !
you are Mokhayara here means you have an umtimate control over your action!
Allah swt guids us through his right path!!!you have answered me exactly what I wanted ..as a caring brother "no joke" we all have our daily issues in life and one wouldn't even care to answer but here I' m one of those who does ...and yes if getting a bit smart made you think wisly than I'll get smarter again in a postive way...
You have spoken very brightly untill you mentioned a satanic story to endure you in nothing but sins .." ...a women that waited twenty years untill her husband took shahada.." a beautiful islamic juliet and romeo ethiest story but Look straight to where you are heading ..a very dangerous road wal3iyado billah!
that false Dawwah sentiment of waiting 20 years is based on a psychological evil to put in your heart something you know is wrong but you accept because of what you have admitted a humanly desires!!!
and what you think made Us all sinners "xcept human desire????!!!
You opened a new thread and yes that site or the other one you mentioned are sites to be questioned ....the Ayats are very clear..
In this great friday Jomo3ah day ,let's all pray that we overcome that evil temptaion human desire that misled us from the right path and seek that is eternal inshallah!
Marriage is not Haram but Look whom you wish to raie your kids with..your case is pretty much wallaho a3lam better ...regarding you are a convert but that shouldn't be a sympathy for you to do what you wish!!!...
Neither your husband should hold you from feeling the blessings to sleep with him instead of feeling something else which is very hard on you ...
Taking the shahadah..saying"Ashhado an la ilaha illa Allah WAshhado anna Mohammadan Rassoulo Allah "you now the translation in Gaelic teach it to him...it better in GELIC THAN IN AN ENGLISH NOSE VERSION AHUM RIGHT PRISTO
He has to learn wodoo ,I'm sure you know this word and SALAT and let him read Quran in English than in Arabic alphabit written in a paper where he can read in his two rakaat salats ...a trial to lead him to a regularly paying..
perhaps if you know a good sister that her husband is muslim ,make a dinner or lynch and invite them home ,introduce them to eachothers ...
and have them take a step forward...of course here geting smart is not a good option ..I only used it for other reason thatgave their fruits already...
any way I have used this option before when few folks entered Islam and it worked ..they even started comming and asking and asking ...Subhannalah!
when you see how great this will work!
Do not forget to pass it on others and pray for eachothers ..
Wassalam, "I 'm not intending to hurt you yasmeen ..you know better "