How to avoid zina?

[NASA]

zina in islam is haram. zina is adultary. to avoid it young men and women should fast a lot and pray allah. but sometimes it's hard to avoid it. so allah (swt) gave us zawaj (marriage) so to avoid zina, before you have the intercourse, the couple should marry each other. the woman can do that by saynig to her mate: zawajtoka nafsi. I remember in my college years, I was married to one of my classmates for over a year. that way everything we did was halal because it was done under the rule of family.

salam.

[Super_Beur]

I think that "zawajtoka nafsi" its not the only condition, u must have the agrement of ur parents and the act of marriage must be wrtitten in an official peaper,and the islam oblige the the existance of witnesses plus the parent of the youg couple.

Wa Allah o A3lam

[villeneuve]

so much crap. how can u say things like that? say zwajtouka and then sleep around as much as u want?

u really take religion as it suits u

[Edited by HOUDA-K on 2nd February 2005 at 15:12]

[HOUDA-K]

~ villeneuve ~

I understand your anger, but please control your language this is a religious forum.

Choukrane



~ Super_Beur ~

It’s like a man is to say: “ I want to be /enjoy you for such-and-such time for such-and-such amount of money.”

It’s basically a marriage contact that ends with the ending of a specified time.

There’s nothing halal about this

Allah {SWT} knows best.


~ NASA ~

This is NOT the way to avoid zina as it’s obvious: it goes against the very purpose of marriage, as outlined in the Qur’an and Sunna.

May Allah protect us from trials and fitnas, outwardly and inwardly.

[coolpharess]

salam
all sisters and brothers!! yes you need the parents permission if you are still vergine..
think wise with whom you are doing the mutaa or temporary marriage..
i have wrote about this is algeria.com
i will copy and past the conversation...

http://www.algeria.com/forums/showth...?threadid=7091

[Khalidz]

Salam All,

This must be some kind of joke, because if it is, it aint funny!!

[Theja]

Nasa, if both of you intend to stay married for life, then your situation is NOT ENCOURAGED but understandable. But if you did it for convenience and pleasure alone, then the joke is on you : you have cheated yourself.

BTW, fasting and prayer does not diminish human need and urge for sexual desire. They provide only temporary distraction.

Sex is a gift from God and should be celebrated, but within proper context : which is proper marriage.