Mahr!

[_nadia_]

Asalaamu alaikom all,

A friend and I were discussing how much you should ask for when the question of a mahr arises between you and a potential partner....what do you all think??

[Khalidz]

Originally posted by _nadia_
Asalaamu alaikom all,

A friend and I were discussing how much you should ask for when the question of a mahr arises between you and a potential partner....what do you all think??

Salam Nadia

How are you sis?

Well it all depends on how much a brother can afford financially, to halal a marriage it can be as little as £1 from what I hear...

Hope it helps

Originally posted by _nadia_
Asalaamu alaikom all,

A friend and I were discussing how much you should ask for when the question of a mahr arises between you and a potential partner....what do you all think??

why don't you charge him by visits it's better that way something like $20/night, $50 if he wants kinky stuff

[_nadia_]

A'oudo billah. Simple I take offence to that...that's really low. I thought you'd changed, but I guess not.

Anyway....

Khalid, jazakAllah khair for your input! The thing is I know about it being according to whatever a brother can afford and the circumstances etc....I can't remember all the details, but there is a hadith in which a man approached the Prophet (saw) telling him he wanted to get married. However he was a very poor man and was worried about providing a mahr for his wife. So the Prophet (Saw) asked him how much of the Qur'an he could recite, and the man told him. The Prophet (saw) then said that that was his mahr to his wife.

The thing is I'm confused about what the "going rate" (lol) is. I know it depends from couple to couple...but I'm really clueless about this.

Nadia xx

Nadia, if people answers to your question offend you, I suggest you stop seeking help here. Or give us the answers first to your question,that way I will paste them for you. It bothers me when I find you.

By the way, I haven't changed a bit nor will I ever

Also, Mahr in my believe is haram we are not buying Robbits anymore, we are seeking companion

[_nadia_]

Don't lecture me on how this forum works Simple.

I'm not offended by people's answers, except when they're rude and are personal attacks on someone. Especially when they're totally unnecessary and uncalled for. Did I diss you?? Was I even specifically referring to you?? NO, exactly. But you had to come with your filth as usual. Fear Allah, seriously.

Just don't talk to me unless you have something of worth to say. I'm not interested in hearing your silly insults that only someone of your intelligence would find amusing.

Goodbye and good luck to you.

[pharess]

salam all
sister you should keep your humble arss home and let the person deal with his duties ..and that is your parents to decied along with him
the walee the responsible of you ..your parents ....
and you should not be exposed to an outside converstaion alots ....i suggest !!! and you do what you want!
cose usually like simple said you do not contract with nobody but lah ihdeena wehddeeh !!!was kinda zlippy some how
now you lil sister should stop acting too isslamically and no isslamically bref!!!!
you should remain out of it!!
how ?!
well since two couples agreed on halal that is the priority right!!!
well details and other costumes must be with the family not you and him !!!!!?give yourself the moroccan isslamic image
ana bgheet leek gheer lkheer! that is just !!!? maasalama!wallaho aalam!