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Old 25th August 2005, 23:52
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Well the local mosque has only been there for a short while and I have only seen men there. Some of these men I have seen around town for years and they will not have eye contact with me, which I understand is a sign of respect. This makes it very difficult. When I go back to spain in four weeks I will be able to talk more about these things as I have met some very nice people. I am not confused about my beliefs but very interested to know more about Islam as I am very interested in religion full stop.

Thanks for the idea though as it might help.

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Old 26th August 2005, 00:20
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Arrow something worries me as well

ahh yeah you may find women in the mosque just ask.
by the way you may meet few women with hijab.
and they tooo think we north Africans all want them for papers... not every person have the same faith or two hearts ?
god sake ,it's sick.!
Good Luck.I'm sad you have this talent and courage ,and not our NORTH AFRICAN women.
tell you what ...just because you have trusted us..i want your honest view!
i have asked a girl in London to intermediate between me and a girl i wanted for marriage and guess what instead of keeping it up,as she said she did her best and i respect that..she end up asking me to marry one of her home town girl ,when i said ,i would like to know my women myself and marry from my own choice ,she said ahh you just want a girl from the west,not knowing...
1-she already introduced me to her trainer who is English and i gave up ,due to culture differences..
2-i did not accept even my mother choice for me..
what is it with this saddening issue.
don't we know that the west is not heaven,lots of men regret their quick choice and hurry for a partner,i want the right one for the long run.what would paper do to me?
i have so much regret to be in such a situation.
but god knows i only loved that girl may be i still do.
one think you all ladies should know...some N African men are serious and believe in honour ,so don't try to mess with.
please understand this ,it is a message and not a threat.
honour exist,you may see guys ,girls wan,ts to kill for their girl/boyfriend in clubs etc..how about a Muslim with honour?
do not take this as a joke !
plus the girl I'm talking to you about chat to dirty guys and i felt ,I'm being treated the same so i quit talking to her.
i need a lil time to forgive her.
a prayer can make things happen
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Old 26th August 2005, 01:02
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Re: something worries me as well

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ahh yeah you may find women in the mosque just ask.
by the way you may meet few women with hijab.
and they tooo think we north Africans all want them for papers... not every person have the same faith or two hearts ?
god sake ,it's sick.!
Good Luck.I'm sad you have this talent and courage ,and not our NORTH AFRICAN women.
tell you what ...just because you have trusted us..i want your honest view!
i have asked a girl in London to intermediate between me and a girl i wanted for marriage and guess what instead of keeping it up,as she said she did her best and i respect that..she end up asking me to marry one of her home town girl ,when i said ,i would like to know my women myself and marry from my own choice ,she said ahh you just want a girl from the west,not knowing...
1-she already introduced me to her trainer who is English and i gave up ,due to culture differences..
2-i did not accept even my mother choice for me..
what is it with this saddening issue.
don't we know that the west is not heaven,lots of men regret their quick choice and hurry for a partner,i want the right one for the long run.what would paper do to me?
i have so much regret to be in such a situation.
but god knows i only loved that girl may be i still do.
one think you all ladies should know...some N African men are serious and believe in honour ,so don't try to mess with.
please understand this ,it is a message and not a threat.
honour exist,you may see guys ,girls wan,ts to kill for their girl/boyfriend in clubs etc..how about a Muslim with honour?
do not take this as a joke !
plus the girl I'm talking to you about chat to dirty guys and i felt ,I'm being treated the same so i quit talking to her.
i need a lil time to forgive her.
a prayer can make things happen
Well Pharess,

Thankyou for yor vote of confidence!!

1st- So you gave up on love because of culture differences??? Interesting.

2nd-TRUE HONOUR is very hard to find. So be proud of what you have to offer and remember

'VIRTUE IS THE ROUGEST WAY- BUT PROVES AT NIGHT A BED OF DOWN"

Do not waste it on the wrong girl, you will have no doubt when you find her!

"A MAN WHO HAS NEVER MADE A FOOL OF HIMSELF IN LOVE WILL NEVER BE WISE IN LOVE"

"TO BELIEVE IS TO BE STRONG"

And Ladies "RESPECT A MAN - HE WILL DO THE MORE"

I pray you find comfort in knowing that you are true to your beliefs.

Time will tell about the other girl, have you spoken about your fears to her??

PEACE
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Old 26th August 2005, 01:15
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i never loved her trainer ,i respected her.
im saying she was from the west and she did not mind getting to know me.and she did not treat me worse than my country women ,when she doubts me ..Allah knows best.
but i don't know why she could not figure it out ?
brief ,i thank you for your prayer.
there are lots of N AFRICAN women from the west comming for vacation,the way they dress and behave ,"some of them"is disgusting
i spoke to her about my hopes and dreams..why fears..
i tought we are one team but she chose to live her own fears..
and i can't make of light darkness ,i can't guide those whom i love ,but who ever god chose and want.
thank you again for mentioning "Respect "
something dying in our world.
west turning east and east turning west.
im starting to think would my wife be from the West and not North African ?
PEACE AND MERCY OF THE LORD .
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Old 26th August 2005, 18:03
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Very TRUE, you canot choose, only God can see the heart condition of a person and he chooses on that basis!
Love is worth waiting for so please have a happy heart!
Integrity you have got it! and what is better for the soul?
I myself live for the future, and happiness is just around the bend!!!
Take care my friend,

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Old 2nd September 2005, 21:19
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Funkygirl

Sorry for the delay in relpy, I don't come on here as much as I used to! I'm half English & half Moroccan, and I'm from London )
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Old 2nd September 2005, 23:42
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Re: Funkygirl

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Sorry for the delay in relpy, I don't come on here as much as I used to! I'm half English & half Moroccan, and I'm from London )
Hiya Nadia, Im about forty miles away in Kent!
Did you grow up in London? Where abouts? Ive worked all over London.
I would love to learn Moroccan. Its my next thing to do, when I finish a Spanish thing im doing at the moment, but its hard to understand the pronunciation.
If I could start with a few basic words I would be a very happy chick!!
Perhaps you might like to help?
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