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Originally posted by criossa
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Originally posted by funkygirl
Dear Criossa,
Thankyou for your kind advice,
It seemed very fishy to me yesterday but I have had telephone chats on and off all day with him and some English speaking people, I now know the whole story and it is not so bad!!
He does have legal papers and a work permit for spain but not for England. He would need a visa to visit me.
His ex is shall I say very friendly! Because he wouldnt marry her she has told the police that he forced her to have realationship with him!!!
He has had enougth of his town where he is well known and is going to stay with his brother in Paris.
This means that he can be close to me and we can get to know each other more!! He dos'nt need anything from me only to know me. I am felling so much better today!!
So perhaps my friend it is going to be a true love story (with plenty of bumps along the way)
I believe any one can make a mistake and would you marry someone you didnt love respect or honor?? I know I wouldnt pregnant or not!!
So once again I say THANKYOU for your comments and advice xxx
I hope my story of true life can bring a smile to your eyes as you ponder about this crazy english gypsie chick mad about a crazy mixed up moroccan boy with the eyes to fall into!! as beyonce sings "I need a soldier"
I will keep you informed my Huggles friend.
P.S how do you get the icon and smiles etc to work?
PEACE & LOVE 4EVER
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Tis easy just make sure the box in options that says (disable smiles in this post)is unchecked then you just need to know what keys make the faces.
And I do not mean to be harsh in my posts it is just that I know what you are going through. I have been there done that and to me what kind of a man would sleep with a woman he did not love or respect (sorry I guess that would be most dogs err men I mean) hehehe What are his plans for the child? Will he support it? Will he keep in contact? I did not see my father till I was 12 and I know how hard it was for my mom.
You are young and I just don't want you to get all wrapped up in his troubles. You have not known him long and really you have so much to learn about him. I know you think you love him but love can blind us from making the right decisions sometimes.
My only advice would be to give space and time so you can use proper caution.
Huggles,
Christina
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Hi there Christina, from what I can make out the ex has told the police that, so as to have an abortion! (Spanish Law ) Respect I believe can easily be lost, and is a little like love, it needs to be made fresh every day so as not to be stale. So I cant blame him for wanting to move away from the memory as he loves children.
I love the way you talk about my age! I am actually getting on a bit! shushhh!!!
and have much experience with the dogs!! hahaheeehee.
I am speaking more with him soon, and maybe visiting in two weeks. But you are totally right, love can be blind and the heart is more treacherous than anything else and is desperate!!
I am Miss Cautious honey so please dont worry.
I have found myself backing off now and as you say only time will tell.
But I saw that he had a kind heart and that is alot!!!
We shall see my friend.
xxx
PEACE ETERNALLY