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Originally posted by HOUDA-K
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I don't care of you're a man or a woman, but seeking a spouse in bar ?
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ya kheti Houda elaborate
curiousity beat me to this
and it's not to shake or stir but to provide a good debate
all that could come to mind was this;
it's exactly an argument of what do you look for in a bar, a drink buddy or a long term stable commitment?
from a Islamic perspective a marriage is solidly built for the purpose of lasting in respect to Islam, if you are surrounded by these things which are not solid the unit will eventually break down and what will be the strength that continues to hold the relationship together is another argument.
same as if a marriage was built on money etc.. these are only objects and they can disappear from one minute to the next what will be the stability or foundation?
i don't agree with the picture post
i've found this out personally and only took a few seconds to post a picture to realise this,
but if you only knew what some people strangely and obsenly do with photos/picture of innocent women who stumble onto these sites without prior deep thought.
sure it's great to be niave at times but you have to look beyond that point
as we say in dz Rebbi Khale9 ou fere9 not all of us out there are good honest people so be very careful
wa salam aleykoum