well ahlam i see you need another thread !!here
on how a women should be treated !!
don't get me wrong we can still have a conversation about it!
beating a women is not an arabic thing...
believe it or not couple days ago i and my best friend have thanked allah in memories in russia ..when russian sisters students with us used to come and seek our help when drunk russian men would come every night with alcohol and there you know what they want...we have brought peace in the campus...and hemdulilah even my other moroccan sisters were feeling comfort around and secure..that a big of course!!!
you should see when one of my sister screamed from her room!!and there was a syrian guy willing to mess with her..
i was only 19 years old but "tough"
the guy without a shame asks me to be cool and leave them alone!!!almost killed him untill she asked me to drop it...which of cource got me mad at her ..but we later laughed about it..she is now married in morocco...hemdulailah..they all ask ...she left her number to my freind...i did not call of cource...for "respect"but i have sent my salam and congratulation...they have noticed the change in my life!!!
in the us as well i have stood up for american womens when i worked in hotels ,clubs,i even went to court one day for a fight with a black dude who was older than me ...it was a bad souvenir to me..that day i worked untill 5 in the morning and went to see my lawyer...in the way back there was him "black dude"beating the life out of her we were alone in the train ...he looked at me and i said easy man...the guy was an angry killer jumping on me...after i was punshed ...he realised a tornado stricking him back and chasing him with a hammer
all over the train...the hammer was in a store owned by arabs lol wow what a day...of cource the train stoped ...he runned in the train ...the police came he was quickly arrested...guess what that women have said...
we had a talk and this guy something is wrong with him .the cops of cource thanks to allah have told me it is always like that mohamed...the black couples met with me..in court ..i droped the case my leader coat 500 us dollars was gone...and i have learned new things...
please do not think we are all alike!!!
the only mad thing i would do is marriying the wrong person!!
but you see if my women refuses me once fine twice fine for a reason or no reason...more refusal she have a way i have a way!
in morocco things are dangerous with the west cultural invasion and unemployment...
each person carry his own duty and shall abid by it!!!
psss Anisa when grown plp talk raise your hand !!!
besslama !!!